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People who've never sold anything imagine the block is arithmetic — "what's the right price?" It isn't. The block is being seen asking. Saying a number out loud feels like claiming you're worth something, and when you've never been paid for the thing you do, that claim feels like a lie. So you under-price, or you freeze, or you say "I'll just do it for free this time" — and free becomes your identity before you ever charge at all.
The fix is not confidence. Confidence comes after the first yes. The fix is a method that makes the number feel less like a judgment of your worth and more like a fact about the work.
Don't start from "what am I worth" — that's a trap that has no answer. Start from two concrete floors and add the professional gap between them:
| Step | Ask |
|---|---|
| The friend floor | "What would I charge a friend who begged me to do this?" — that's your honest minimum, stripped of ego. |
| The relief value | "What is this worth to them if it removes their stress?" — you're not selling hours, you're selling the end of a problem. |
| The professional gap | Add a little above the friend floor, because a stranger deserves the same care plus reliability, receipts, and follow-through. That gap is the business. |
The number that comes out is defensible, and — crucially — it's yours, not a guess copied from someone else's rate card.
The difference between a price that closes and a price that scares is delivery. Apologizing ("sorry, it's ₦X, I know it's a lot…") tells them you don't believe it. Stating it plainly ("it's ₦X, and here's exactly what that includes") tells them you do. Lesson 8 covers this for people who already charge; for the never-have, the rule is simpler: state the number once, then stop talking. The silence after the price is where they decide. Don't fill it with a discount.
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